Does the Bugaboo Butterfly have a snack and water tray? If not, can you please tell me what my best option would be? is there a universal one that would fit? Also is there a cup holder and bag for the handlebar for mom (me), lol?
I am sorry to say there is no snack / drinks tray available for the Butterfly yet, no. There are no universal trays like that as each stroller has a different frame, narrower, wide, with differently shaúed bars... and the drink might simply fall down on your little one.
What I would di here would be to get a universal parent cup holder, e.g. the Skip Hop cup holder, or actually any brand that fits all strollers (always go for simple and sturdy, no embellishments, they make the cup holder weaker - rather invest those 5 dollars plus) - or you could get a universal parent organizer, e.g. the Diono Buggy Buddy Universal Stroller Organizer.
You, however, should NOT use your handbag/changing bag on your Butterfly/on the handle. This is one of the smallest strollers and it could make it tip rearward. WIth not such a light, small stroller you should do that - but you can push your bag into the basket, ideally from the front.
Hope I helped!